Couples Retreat (2009)

3.5/5 stars

This is a surprisingly adult film-—not like X rated, but in the sense that the relationships, the struggles and conversations feel genuine. The characters all well developed, albeit all seem a bit shallow. The situations are hilarious and believable. The writing is consistent and, unlike other comedies, all the themes are carried through to the end.

WARNING: SPOILER

The ending is too Hollywood. The couple you expect to break up, after all she’s 20 and he’s in his late 30s, is the only one that does. The couples with real problems make it through, at least for a little while. The final happy moments feel like the rosy glow after the honeymoon, but none of the couples have actually dealt with their problems.

In some cases, communication through fighting, a romantic weekend and make-up sex in the pool shed might revitalize a relationship, but in my limited experience (mostly in observation and having a parent who was a divorce lawyer) marrying a friend doesn’t always lead to true companionship. The relationship might be functional and comfortable, but it’s ultimately unfulfilling. The couple that admits they’re simply best friends suddenly has sex again. It’s nice to think that type of relationship is possible.